exam's over.. but life still goes on! lolx. sound awful.. holiday's here and i'm neutral. neither too sad nor too excited.
kept watching dvd these few days. and i finished a 20 episodes series within three days,not fast but at least not too slow. watched dream catchers and currently watching honour and passion. thank poh yiin for lending me all those series. free of charge!!
attended a very close cousin's wedding dinner on friday night. she's very pretty and elegant. my bian jie fu of course very handsome too. they make a wonderful couple. wish them all the best and end up like fairytale-live happily ever after. xD
spend some time helping my friends at her new tuition center. carried tables and chairs. do some cleaning.. although i tried real hard to reject people so that i won't be 'woan pan'/being used by other people.. hahaha.. still i can't do that. stick to my principle,can help then help lo. i know people might think i'm stupid. but why just because people say you stupid and you end up doing stupid-er thing(going against yourself and refuse to help). think about it. ;)
yesterday went out with jenny,jia,lex,zhen xiang,shurn cheng,jia,ying and hui ting. it's a great pleasure hanging out with jen them. we were loud,crazy,wild and stressfree!! really happy meeting each other after a long while. =) discovered another new place to yam cha too. jase's tea room with coffee frangance. unique? guess they did some mistakes while naming their cafe. hahahhaha. (-.-)|||
then this morning,after breakfast.. went to chesire home to visit some friends there. they were very happy when we go and visit them. i feel happy also. talked to benica and gave her the prayer book i promised last visiting. her smile moved me. never realised that happiness is something so simple.. like i said before 快乐不是得到的多,而是计较地少.
幸福是空气
流动着就如风
伸手想抓却抓不着
唯一能做的就是伸开双手
让风轻轻地拥抱着
别埋怨强风,那使你更坚强
别要求小风,那是忧苦之慰
幸福是会从不同方向切入的
其实你我都没发现
我们就在幸福中
因为每个呼.吸都是幸福的交替
人不能只呼不吸
相反的,不能只吸不呼
有舍才有得本来就是呼吸这么简单的道理
Sunday, May 31, 2009
Monday, May 25, 2009
Friday, May 22, 2009
something to ponder.
someone said : "you can't stay awake just because you're scared of nightmares. you'll have even more nightmares that way." hmmmmmmm... perhaps running away is not the best solution but many people choose to do that. i'm one of them.
now,i deleted all the songs you like either from my handphone,pendrive,computer.. i choose to let go and no longer live for you. live for you by Y2J,i won't sing that song anymore. it's to show my strong intention to get over you. until now,i still don't know whether i'm trying to run away or solve the problem,but at least i do something.. something and the last thing i can do for you and... myself. hope it's the end of all pain.
Maybe not everything possess a perfect ending and we can't never have answer to certain questions.
now,i deleted all the songs you like either from my handphone,pendrive,computer.. i choose to let go and no longer live for you. live for you by Y2J,i won't sing that song anymore. it's to show my strong intention to get over you. until now,i still don't know whether i'm trying to run away or solve the problem,but at least i do something.. something and the last thing i can do for you and... myself. hope it's the end of all pain.
Maybe not everything possess a perfect ending and we can't never have answer to certain questions.
Saturday, May 16, 2009
幸福卡
卡片。。传递了你对那个人的许多爱和祝福。给家人,朋友,情侣,任何想要关心的人,那是一份心意,也是科技永远无法超越的,甚至办到的。
没想到平时大剌剌的她,也会做卡,而且不输本小姐哦(哈哈,臭屁的叻)。当你握着那张卡,告诉我那是来不及送出去的卡,因为你们分手了,不经意地透露一丝丝感伤。你的心意,别埋藏在心里,生日是应该被祝福的。我相信他也会很珍惜你的祝福的。或许他不适合你,但依然是朋友嘛,卡还是可以寄出的呀!你可以找到更好的,别伤心。 =)
长这么大,记忆中收过一次生日卡。是姐姐亲手做的,现在看回,还是很感动的。 之后就没有再收过亲手作的生日卡。我的下一张会是你送的吗?我期待着。。 =)
没想到平时大剌剌的她,也会做卡,而且不输本小姐哦(哈哈,臭屁的叻)。当你握着那张卡,告诉我那是来不及送出去的卡,因为你们分手了,不经意地透露一丝丝感伤。你的心意,别埋藏在心里,生日是应该被祝福的。我相信他也会很珍惜你的祝福的。或许他不适合你,但依然是朋友嘛,卡还是可以寄出的呀!你可以找到更好的,别伤心。 =)
长这么大,记忆中收过一次生日卡。是姐姐亲手做的,现在看回,还是很感动的。 之后就没有再收过亲手作的生日卡。我的下一张会是你送的吗?我期待着。。 =)
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
Monday, May 11, 2009
Sunday, May 10, 2009
Saturday, May 9, 2009
献给不开心的人
经历了一星期的低谷,我终于想通了。
前阵子,我一直在想:珍惜了,难道就不会失去吗?
看看世界上,有多少人珍惜了,仍然失去。
和朋友聊起,他说:世界上没有永恒的事情。
不,不是这样的。。
不管你认同与否,生命是有得,有失的。
人生中多多少少有一些些遗憾。
珍惜是唯一可以把遗憾降到最低的。
美好的回忆,是值得收藏和纪念的。
但每天活在回忆的阴影而身陷无法自拔的泥沼,是会带来没必要的伤害。。
虽然很残忍,但有些东西失去了,就是失去了。
人生短短,何必让这些东西折磨自己呢?
心中的空虚应该让珍惜身边的事来填补,
为自己的心设道墙,不但别人走不进去,自己也会有一天迷失在那迷宫里。
有人说黎明来临之前,是最黑的。
但不管夜多黑,温暖的太阳依然会升起。
有人说彩虹出现之前,一定是狂风暴雨的,
但不管雨再大,风再强,天空总有架起彩虹的那一刻。
那是天主对人类的承诺。
快乐会消失,同样的,痛苦也会过去的。
“老天为你关了那扇门,一定会为你开启另一扇窗。”
相信大家都听过这一句话,
不过包括我自己,常常都在实行着这句话的下一句:
“只是我们往往都执著于那关起来的门,而忽略了打开的窗。”
只要你试着放下执著,看看周围,珍惜眼前的事与人,
你就可以不再当痛苦的傀儡;与喜乐共舞。
快乐不是因为得到得多,而是计较得少。
前阵子,我一直在想:珍惜了,难道就不会失去吗?
看看世界上,有多少人珍惜了,仍然失去。
和朋友聊起,他说:世界上没有永恒的事情。
不,不是这样的。。
不管你认同与否,生命是有得,有失的。
人生中多多少少有一些些遗憾。
珍惜是唯一可以把遗憾降到最低的。
美好的回忆,是值得收藏和纪念的。
但每天活在回忆的阴影而身陷无法自拔的泥沼,是会带来没必要的伤害。。
虽然很残忍,但有些东西失去了,就是失去了。
人生短短,何必让这些东西折磨自己呢?
心中的空虚应该让珍惜身边的事来填补,
为自己的心设道墙,不但别人走不进去,自己也会有一天迷失在那迷宫里。
有人说黎明来临之前,是最黑的。
但不管夜多黑,温暖的太阳依然会升起。
有人说彩虹出现之前,一定是狂风暴雨的,
但不管雨再大,风再强,天空总有架起彩虹的那一刻。
那是天主对人类的承诺。
快乐会消失,同样的,痛苦也会过去的。
“老天为你关了那扇门,一定会为你开启另一扇窗。”
相信大家都听过这一句话,
不过包括我自己,常常都在实行着这句话的下一句:
“只是我们往往都执著于那关起来的门,而忽略了打开的窗。”
只要你试着放下执著,看看周围,珍惜眼前的事与人,
你就可以不再当痛苦的傀儡;与喜乐共舞。
快乐不是因为得到得多,而是计较得少。
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
虽然我愿意
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